How do I send a message to a lady?

ForeignLadies is a pay-per-email system. To send a message visit the lady's profile and click on its "email me" button. On the next screen, compose your message and click "submit".

You will need to have at least 10 credits in your account to send your message, though. 10 credits cost $7.50 at the moment and 10 credits will allow you to send one email.