There are a number of options to begin a chat. If you are viewing a lady’s profile and the "Chat Now" button is flashing that means the lady is online and available to chat. Clicking the button will open a chat screen and when the lady accepts your request, you two will be connected in the chat room.
Also, you can go to your account page. The upper right corner will display some of the ladies currently available to chat. Click the lady's portrait to go to her profile, or you can click the "See All Online Women" button to open the chat screen with a listing of all online ladies. We recommend using this option if you wish to chat with more than one woman at once since you will be able to navigate easily between your different chat sessions, as opposed to opening an additional chat screen for each lady.